@talkingwithtinybuddah and @vanessakay thank you for sharing, yes feeling you wise and happy now does help me, actually i came to the same conlusion (finally!) if that person a friend or a lover doesn’t not treat the way i want doesn’t to be in life, and what they do or say or THINK does not concerne me anymore :)) ,but i must confess that anytime he came back i feel weak again and feel that i could miss a chance especially when i feel him sincere sometime, i won’t lie it disturbes me alot anytime he shows up…but i’m trying to stick to the hurtful but releasing reality that i choosed even if i’m not toally convinced that’s he dind’t really care about me and i got to block my heart from feelings and my mind from memories, i don’t know how i’ll finally get through this but i know i will, thank you and excuse my english it’s not my native langage :)) love <3