Hi Suze,

There is nothing wrong with having kids late in life.

However, to be blunt, kids are a lot of work and you have other major issues including depression, addictions, and you not being sure if you love your bf.

Please consider this scenario for a minute: You are a couple years into the future and you have a baby. Unfortunately, you have developed Post Partum Depression and your husband/bf cannot handle the pressure and is leaving you. Would you have the resources to cope under such circumstances? If the answer is Yes, go ahead and have the baby. If not, please DON’T !

Sorry to play devil’s advocate but this is a real life scenario that occurs often and ends up devastating lives.

GOD Bless !