Hi There! I answered this in your comments, but glad you put it on a Forum!
To put a visual spin on this: The other week my son and I saw turkeys. It was mating season. The cob was all decked out in his finery. He looked half as big as the car, his feathers glistening with purple, blue and black highlights. He was shaking, rattling and cackling, long pinfeathers dragging melodically on the pavement.
“OK,” I said out loud, already bored. “Where is she? Where’s the hen?”
And then She appeared (this would be you LOL). Long-legged, slender, elegant, poking around for seeds.
The cob went crazy. More display.
Cars were honking and weaving around us.
Cob didn’t care.
And neither did she. I honestly, truly think she was 100% just looking for seeds. It wasn’t an act. She just didn’t care.
Look, if, in Mother Nature itself, which is a perfect reflective blueprint of The Universe, the females during Mating Season, THE Mating Season, don’t care, It’s OK!! You don’t have to be interested right now. There is no Cosmic Law, no Noah’s Ark. Just hang out. Eat seeds! It is perfect no matter what or who you choose or don’t choose!
I Promise!!! 🙂
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 