Another thought ~ Sometimes an ex will call out of the blue to “test the energies”, not of you, but for themselves. They are looking for that energy of “the way things were”. The problem is, everyone grows and changes, and their old lines sound tired, even to themselves.

You were broke up for a reason. You two aren’t as young carefree people anymore, you are now a little more older grown ups. The energy of a 25 year old can be vastly different from a 30 year old’s. (You did bring up age!) 🙂

“Let the sperm chase the egg.” Meaning, let him do all the work. Yes, you can call him back, or say, “Sure, you want coffee? Let’s have coffee,” but you should really drop the rope. You tested the energies yourself and found they weren’t up to standards. You are the gatekeeper too, of your own heart.

Go out and meet someone new! 🙂