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June 26, 2014 at 5:20 pm #59664
Big blue
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Hi Misha,

You story resonates with me. That is, the distorted thinking.

Here is a straight forward path:

1. Accept yourself 100% as of this second.
2. Continue growing and learning.

By accepting yourself you can be at peace and not have these distorted thoughts.

By focusing on growing and learning each day, you will enjoy your life day by day.

Now that you are thinking this way, compare yourself to yourself, past and future. You have no doubt had some great experiences in your past. What do you see for yourself in the future? If you see a calm, confident person, aspire each day to be like her. Also, pick some authentic roles models.

Does this make sense?

Big blue

  • This reply was modified 10 years, 5 months ago by Big blue.
  • This reply was modified 10 years, 5 months ago by Big blue.