totally unrealistic Inky. “Put some furniture or a lot of your stuff there so there is suddenly no room at the inn.” Shall I move my couch there randomly one day? ha. Yes, Im not his wife and i dont pay rent but we are in a relationship. So gf/bf do are limited to what they can say or do? In that case there are many “friends” in the world! This is a respecting of my feelings thing. I would have the courtesy to ask him if hes ok with it so I am kind of angry that he didn’t and furthermore hes being insensitive to the whole situation now. Anyhow, I have thought enough about this whole ordeal and I cant make him feel what I want him to feel or act therefor I’m pulling away from the situation moving forth. I’ve said what I had to say and I’m kind of turned off by him now. I’m letting things fall as they may. Maybe this is the beginning of conflicting personalities.