OK, as an intuitive (and we all are!) your First Instinct is usually Correct. I know Buddhism and self-defense teachers say sometimes your instincts are wrong. However! 9/10 they are spot on correct!!

It’s not how someone makes you feel in the moment. But how do you feel Right After the last interaction?

Pay attention to the hair rising on the back of your neck, suddenly Not Wanting to Do Something, even dreams.

Body language ~ not looking in the eyes means trying to get out of something. Looking in the eyes too much can be lying. Crossed arms are the person wants to end the conversation. Suddenly being your new Best Friend is they want/need something.

If you’re having trouble with this and nothing bad happens to you, that is good news, you don’t need these skills as the people around you are flowing with your energy naturally!

If you feel people are being dishonest or taking advantage, practice Observation rather than interaction. And don’t be so quick to give away your time, energy or money!