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Wait ~ is this the guy with The Room Mate??
OK ~ and this is just me ~ if you’ve been dating for more than a year, a proposal/a ring is forthcoming. Because we women go crazy with The Clock thing (and it’s a real thing!!) then why would you let him get in the way of your future children? That’s how I see it. Who is this guy who is standing in between my children and grandchildren? Is he the father or just some guy? If he is the father, we have a biological time limit, baby! If he’s just some guy ~ well, see ya!
Tell him you need an engagement or you will be dating other people who want the same thing. He is, of course, the first choice, but he has to want it too. And when he does, you will be there if free!
There will be even more anger. Trust me. But, it is possible that when he sees other guys take you out, reality will crash into him and he will realize what all the dating was for.
🙂