Hi Axel,

If she had not tipped her hand, it would be business as usual.

It’s a rush I know. I had this happen under different circumstances after my wife and I split up. Even then, I distanced myself.

I’m going to be very blunt so stop reading if you want to move from butterflies to the two if you riding a unicorn. Tha fact that you are asking about this shows you are not thinking clearly. Her age, that she quit due to her feelings, your position as boss, and what else..? Oh yes ….helloooooo you’re married. The issue is as Matt said, you are enmeshed. Simply stop wondering and take a COMPLETE 6-month break. You need to do this. Do this. No oscillating. For you and your wife and for this young woman. Also for your business which can be put in jeopardy when your wheels come off at some point. For your other employees. For your customers. For others who you can help unless your life collapses due to this situation. After 6 months, take 12, then 24….COMPLETE.

Big blue

• This reply was modified 10 years, 4 months ago by Big blue.
• This reply was modified 10 years, 4 months ago by Big blue.