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August 1, 2014 at 5:55 pm
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… Ok I’m back. My battery died. 🙂
What comes next depends.
Q: do you feel bad about your past?
Q: do you feel humble?
Q: do you feel shame?
Q: do you fear what else they may be thinking about you?
If you are saying yes to any of these questions, and thinking of your friend, you might be feeling some empathy for her. We are all flawed. Sometimes we have trouble handling this.
If you said no to all of those questions, and you are not seeing something new, consider something more brave: repeat the process with her.
What do you think and feel now?