Hi Alpal,

I had some of this too.

It can be jealousy that you’re marrying before them, anger that a phase of life is ending, upset to see that you can move on without them, jealous that someone else is filling all your needs or even disapproval of the groom or that you marrying so young/before they think you’re “ready”.

You don’t really know what it is. It could be different things for different people.

You could call her, but honestly? Use this first year to be happy with your new husband. Then next year call and gently have it out.