If I’m doing the math right, it’s been 5 years he’s been remarried. Thoughts:

1. Clearly, getting remarried a year after a divorce is in the realm of midlife crisis land.

2. Moving two doors down is on the surface being close to the children, but it is really putting their “happiness” in your face. It was a controlling move.

3. He may have “moved on”, but the honeymoon next door is probably over. They are now having their “damn dailies”, drudgery and routine.

4. Even if he had stayed single and moved across the country, after six years most people naturally move on into their new life.

5. Ditch the meds (with doc’s help), seek amazing therapy, sell your house and move (for a true new beginning) and see other people.