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September 24, 2014 at 9:43 am
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InkyParticipant
Would you divorce your husband if the other guy didn’t exist? There’s your answer.
But wait for all the kids to be adults first if you do. That’s when change would happen anyway.
And if you do divorce, keep the other guy a “ghost” for a while, for everyone’s mental health. Then gently introduce him a few years later so he doesn’t catch any stigma for breaking up a marriage.
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