Well, all I know is that no one is perfect. We all have flaws and make mistakes and foibles. If I held out for a perfectly perfect person, I would be very lonely right now. You have to accept people where they are. People are selfish at the end of the day and their values do change. For example, if a kid does something terrible you want the judge to punish him, but if it’s your own kid you wouldn’t want him in the courts at all, you’d rather punish him at home! So good luck finding a friend or lover who dovetails perfectly with your own value system. It’s not as easy as all that, and hopefully you won’t clash!