Hey Kyniska,

First off, relax. Your imperfections are what make you unique. Knowing and working on our imperfections can make life more exciting because there is always something to work on. We’re not meant to be perfect. I’m sure you’ve noticed that there is always a positive and negative to things in life. Well, our imperfections are the balance to our perfections. It’s all about how you look at your own imperfections that matter.

Instead of seeing them as reasons to dislike yourself or seeing them as reasons why others don’t like you, see them as opportunities to understand yourself and your life in a deeper way. The happier you are with yourself, the more happiness you can share. People are attracted to happiness. We all could use more of it in our lives.

So, to recap, relax and don’t be so hard on yourself. Where you are is where you’re meant to be and until you find the motivation to change, flow with what is. Secondly, accept who you are and where you are in this moment and do whatever it takes to love that person. And last but not least, find strength in others, find courage in all that’s around you. If you work towards bettering yourself, one day people will look to you for strength. Become the person you need right now.

here’s my blog if you want further help. Thepathofaronin.blogspot.com

Goodluck!