Hi purnita,

You said yourself that “if it’s meant to be, it will be.” However, there’s only so much you can do. Give him and his family some time to come around and work things out, but don’t wait around forever. You have to do what you need to do in order to make you happy. Eventually, that could mean leaving behind the relationship. You can’t force anything, you can only give things your best shot and then let it be. Don’t torture yourself with images of what “has to be” or what “should be,” and just concentrate more on “what is” and knowing yourself. I think that knowing yourself is how you will figure out if he is really the one god sent for you.
Hope I could help!