HI Steve, I was just reading through all these posts and you seem to dish out pretty good advice. First of, wondering how its going with your dating life. You haven’t been on in a while, so I am guessing you’re A) dating someone happily or B) taking some time off during the holidays.

I just wanted to say from a woman’s perspective – if you felt (or if you still feel) attracted to this woman (woman #1 that you felt so good with), and still have her in your mind…maybe shoot her a text (I think its been like 6 weeks?) and see how she is doing. Maybe she just needed some time to sort herself out.

I, personally, have broken up with some guys that I didn’t feel “right” about – and they either came back around, or asked me to help them understand why I was breaking it off…and it actually moved the relationship forward. I ended up dating one of them for a year and a half and we were really in “belly love” – except at the end – well it ended badly bc he had some issues with my 7 year old – and I started to feel bad in the relationship – so I ended it.

I say – if you haven’t – shoot that woman a text and see what happens. You never know..if she’s still in your head its for a reason.