If he didn’t love her, and he’s an attorney (smart enough to not only pass the BAR exam but get out quickly and easily) trust me, he would have.

I wouldn’t give $$$ to a beloved blood relative for elective surgery.

My DH? Yes.

And I’m a girl, laden with “shoulds” and “have to’s” and “But it’s faaammmiiilllyyy!”.

We don’t expect guys to write thank you notes, but he takes care of his family. Of course he loves her, he’s “supporting” her! If they have a 1 Mill lifestyle, he loves her as much as 1 Mill.

And “she” IS “he”! Please remember that a married couple is ONE unit! His $$$ IS her $$$!

Once again, I know it’s hard to hear.

When a man falls out of love, they are OUT of there, whether they have someone in the wings or not.

The more you listen to him gripe and complain, the more of his burden you take on. Maybe if you weren’t there all the time he would figure it all out. But don’t count on it.