Thanks Inky. I know you will roll your eyes at this but it really is complicated. He doesn’t have money. He is trying to build up his business and even get into another line of work that he has discussed with me and we have looked for the property for this when he comes here.
I am not sure all of your observations on him are correct just as mine are all probably not correct either.
I just do not think that he drove 1000 miles to see me and calls me every single day all day long, tells me everything just for his health. Maybe you are right… it just doesn’t feel right that he is just going through the motions with me.

Sarah, I think I am being honest with myself. He is working hard in his office so he can move in there. He does calls all the shots. I don’t pressure him at all because he is under an intense amount of pressure as it is.
When I ask him about anything specific he tells me he loves me and nothing has changed as far as his feelings for me and he wants us to have a life together.
Thanks for your response.