Hi sondersome,

It’s so easy to look back and play scenarios in our mind about our parallel universe if we did THIS or did THAT. Said THIS or said THAT, etc., etc. It can drive you nuts.

Also, there is no good time to break up, but I hate it when I hear men dump their GFs during or around a holiday. That’s just setting you up to feel sad on New Years.

And bringing your stuff when you were supposed to talk? Another thing.

These are just irritants, and I’m just a stranger, but please don’t play mystery solver when he did two “You gotta be kidding me buddy” gaffs.

Keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t beg, don’t plead. Think of his breaking up with you as a gift to your future self. He broke up with you so your future self would have to do the dirty work on him.

May You Find Love and Happiness,

Inky