I am on the same general path as this right now. I’ve had two main sites that helped me get to know me. The first is Penn State’s Authentic Happiness department. https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu. Do every single questionnaire they have there. And search the internet for other scientific ones like the Keirsey Institute that is a better view into the Myers Briggs world (IMHO) http://keirsey.com/.

The second site I’m almost a little embarrassed to admit is pinterest. I used it a bit like a visual journal. **Anything** that appealed to me on the internet was fair game. I just looked, I have over 11,000 pins. Each one of those pins is a tiny piece of information about me. Altogether they are a rather complete and complex picture of who I am that I don’t think I could have gotten a different way.

If I were you, I would stay away from goal setting or visualizations for now. You have a goal and it isn’t easy to discover who you really are so you do not need any other goals adding mental clutter. Also, IMHO, visualizations are you imposing an order on your psyche and instead it sounds to me you want your psyche free to bubble information back to you. It truly doesn’t matter who you are, it only matters that you are not sure about it.