Hi Jeff,

I would send the letter. Even if it makes it 1% better, why not? If it makes it 1% worse, well, so what, at this point?

I would let her go but you have three kids together. I would gently explain that the cost, time and energy of attorneys will take away money, time and energy from the children. It would be better if you treat her with polite respect, as you would a nice stranger and co-parent the kids. Remember, she’s “right” even when/if she’s wrong. Let her be the Head Parent, but always be there, always be OK with anything. Maybe when she sees this side of you more often, things can start to turn around.

Good Luck,

Inky

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