Based on what you said, it sounds like that everytime something happens, you are the one who has to adjust your life style to suit his needs. When you were pregnant, you had to have the abortion. When you found out that he was cheating, you were the one who ended up having to apologise and over look his ways even though you felt terrible on the inside. When you wanted a relationship while he is not ready to commit, you are the one who had to question why you are not enough for him. Now you have to change your application for work because of a decision he made and even after all that you have been through, he’s still not sure whether he wants to be in a relationship.

Is this how you would treat your soulmate?

So I agree with Maggie here is that you should get away as soon as possible as you deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect. Even if you want to salvage the relationship with this person, he is too used to getting his way and it will probably be difficult to trust him due to past histories.