I had to put my 2 cents worth in.
Even though others have said it too.

You said he has a history of this behavior.
We just have to start smacking ourselves on the head when we fail to remember that past behavior usually predicts future behavior.

You know… think of the nerve it takes for a man to promise something like this, then gets you to move in, and then just changes everything he said.

You are being asked to make all of the sacrifices. He has no bio. clock and he is getting the cake and the icing without so much as a commitment.

I would pack my things so fast he wouldn’t know what hit him!!

Leave him eating my dust wondering what the h— happened!

I wish you well.