Hi Catherine,

Why do women always say, “I need to forgive”? Are we trying to be better people? Is it something impossible to strive for so we give ourselves permission to never let go? Is it to feel more powerful, more enlightened? Religious/Spiritual?

I can guarantee you that he never has/had those feeling, much less of guilt.

I say it’s OK to be angry! Be pissed! How dare he treat you with such disrespect?!? Azzhat.

You had The Last Word by leaving. It sounds like you want to “forgive” yourself for giving him that last lame conversation.

I think what you really want is The True Last Word.

You can do that by living awesomely and never speaking to him again.

Hold you head up!

Move On,

Inky

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