Dear cperrone
Are you protecting someone behaving like that when you help him avoid the consquences of his behavior?
If you really want to help him, you should procceed with the restraining order. That way he will learn a lot about what happens when you systematically abuse a person, what means enforcement of law-the irony of it being that he wishes to represent law enforcement.
I think that even if he loses his opportunity to join the police this is not your fault, you are not destroying his life, you are saving yours! He destroyed his life by himself with his actions! You may actually be giving this man a second chance to learn from his terrible mistakes and make him self a better man.
You are only responsible for your life and your actions. Not for the actions of others.
Take care, have Hope
George
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