Amcar77,

First, what a strong woman you are. I was born to a teen mother and I have always bragged about the strength and courage it takes to make that work. When it comes to your marriage, I am so sorry. I am going through a divorce myself and almost every day some type of feelings of resentment come boiling back. The truth for me is found in forgiveness. You may never understand why he did what he did and you may never understand why he is choosing to leave. You can however, choose to not let him continue to control your life with his bad decisions. I read recently that when we forgive others, we are choosing to not be the victim of their actions and move on. It comforted me in the fact that I don’t want to be a victim, I am stronger than that and I feel that you are too.

The future is scary and adding kids and money issues into that mix is terrifying. Truth is, you will find a way. The universe will unfold as it should, maybe this is your new chance at a beautiful life.

You are loved.

<3 Kori