Dear Rookie,

I really like your approach, you are very brave and it was the right thing to do. However, I don’t understand that he wants to spend time with you, so that he can work out whether he wants to spend time with you. It seems confusing and a bit wishy washy on his part and the outcome is still not for him to make a decision. It may be wise to date others, and see if he ‘reaches” to you. I wouldn’t like you to commit yourself without him committing. Life is short. There is a lot of options out there, be kind to yourself. xx