You are worse off than me, having to sell stuff to pay bills but I can definitely relate to your job issues.
Didn’t Einstein say once to the effect “you don’t solve a problem with the same thinking that caused it”. Therefore you and I need to think outside the square.
I’d say time was up for both jobs so move on. Can you move location?
It is going to take some courage and determination for me to find and maintain suitable work. More prayer and meditation required from me anyway.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine.