Aaahhh, the old “I’m afraid you’ll cheat on me because I’m afraid I might cheat on you” line.

OK, truth?

She’s in a new place, with new people, with new experiences, and she’s young. You know what, she might. Hopefully she’d break up with you first.

If you really, really want to keep her in your life, get engaged and move to where she is.

I’m sorry, friend. I’ve been there. I was that girl. In college I saw a hundred outdoorsy guys wearing flannel shirts and baseball caps (it was the 90’s), and I thought: “I’m not going to make it” concerning my London boyfriend.

But it sounds like you have a more serious relationship and are out of school, right?

My advice now? Move/get engaged or let her go.

Inky