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It’s fight or flight. I usually choose flight. I have chosen the fight option in the past,but it was very stressful. Guess the fight option is best for self-esteem though.
OK Anita, would appreciate your thoughts on the following dream I had last night.
In the dream, I was at my most recent workplace. A guy who had disrespectfully micromanaged me before was doing the following:
with a gun shooting at my shoes and putting holes in them! “Dance!” he said. Yeah I know, only in a dream right!!
And here’s my reaction: I was asking another colleague “I don’t think he’s allowed to do that to me, is he?”
In other words, I was second guessing myself, even in this ridiculous scenario.
I woke up about 2.00am, anxious, almost sweating. But then I laughed when I thought about the dream content. That’s how ridiculous, my second guessing habit is though. I really need to do something about it. As you said once, better to err on the side of over self-assertion than continue with that pathetic self-doubt.