Hi Ritu,
OH Wow.
OK, he is/was WAY too entangled. They were married. No, separated. A business together. A child together.
And for him to act like everything was conventionally Normal?
You know people who live double lives? Think Multiple Personality and Schizophrenic. That’s how he’s living.
For him not to tell you or even give you a hint, he basically MADE YOUR DECISION FOR YOU. You know who that is done to? Children.
Parent: “We’re going to the carnival. Get in the car.”
Kid: “Hey, this isn’t the carnival, this is the dentist!”
Parent: “Yes, well…”
Trust me, if you tell people the story, anyone will immediately see how Effed Up this is and how wrong he was. They won’t view you as a home wrecker at all!
Have no contact with him for at least a year! This will give you your sanity back. He owes you that much. And never get entangled with him again! There are plenty of normal people out there! Give them a chance.
Blessings,
Inky
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