Hi anita,

We do seem to have opposite outlooks! My feeling is the OPs (original posters) will take what they themselves find useful and leave the rest. And further, they are looking for solutions/outlooks from ALL perspectives! I think for this AM’s post I was saying, “Their relationship is not real” and you were saying, “Your pain is real”. Both could be simultaneously True, depending on how the Poster views it!

OK, I’ll bite… If you have any insight into my Daddy Issues I’d be glad to hear it!

Sorry for the thread hijacking, erin, if you are still here!!