Dear H1978:

It is tough and it is going to be tough for you for a long time. I don’t know anything about law in the UK and not a lot about the legality of divorce in the US. What I am thinking is: he is greatly motivated by money, very much so. So expect that and try to use it to your advantage in appealing to this strong motivation of his. He is likely to do anything to save money. He will not use a lawyer if it will cost him more money than otherwise. So maybe he is more likely to reach an agreement with you, more motivated so to save legal costs.

You need to know some basic legal information in the U.K so to proceed. Probably see a solicitor (is that a lawyer..) for consultation and tell him or her how greatly he is motivated to save money and how to use it for your advantage so to get to an equitable and FAST divorce.

anita