Dear Pree:

I also feel uncomfortable pretending nothing happened when something did happen. I don’t like doing that and why would I…there better be a good reason for it. A very good reason, otherwise, if something meaningful happened, I want to know what it is before going on. It is necessary FOR the purpose of going on with any relationship of significance.

I like your view about not demanding another to make space for you in their lives and letting go, then, taking care of yourself and focusing on your marriage and overseas move- lots there to keep you occupied and get results that will benefit you and your future husband.

Post again, if you’d like!

anita