Dear Amy:

I do not understand why you are hell bent on the man having a relationship with your child, I have no idea. From all that you shared you don’t want him to have a relationship with your child, not the man you described here post after post. You are trying to… force the man who is a bad influence on your child to have a relationship with your child. i don’t understand this conflicting motivation on your part. I am not talking about the court proceeding, I am talking about what Amy wants, in your heart:

Do you want, in your heart, that the abusive man you described to have a closer relationship with your child? You know who the man is: why in the world do you want him to have a relationship with your child???

anita