Hi Bellybutton

I can’t tell you how much this post resonated with me. I have felt this way on and off my whole life but recently it’s be worse than ever. I compare myself to everyone I meet and am always putting myself down and telling myself that everyone else is so much prettier than me. I know that it’s not all about looks but I still can’t help myself. Growing up I’ve always been told that I’m attractive and that if I go for a job interview I’ll definitely get the job because I’m a “pretty girl” which hasn’t helped as it’s obviously instilled in me that looks are important. I am also a perfectionist and want to be the best that I can be in everything. Also my dad walked out on us when I was young so I think it also has something to do with that initial rejection. I haven’t had a boyfriend for 4 years because I feel I need to love myself first before anyone else can. But at the rate in going I feel like this will never happen! Social media doesn’t help either so I have recently deleted my Facebook, instagram and twitter. I’m hoping this will help with the whole comparison thing. I’m sorry I haven’t been able to give you any advice like everyone else here has but I also know it can be a comfort to hear someone else is going through the same thing, you are not alone. Xx

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