Dear Nan:

Are you saying that those cruises and exciting life of the first half of your marriage to R-2 were financed by money that he had earned or had, not yours (since you keep independent records of finances)?

During the first part of your marriage to R-2, the exciting and fun part, how did you feel about him? How did you view him? How were the interactions/ the dance? Did it change in the second half, following his bankruptcy?

anita