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Danielle Dam is a life and leadership coach, speaker, and founder of Coach Dam LLC. Through her signature program, From Unseen to Unforgettable (U2U), she helps ambitious yet overwhelmed women stop living on autopilot and start leading lives that actually feel as good as they look. After years of chasing external validation, Danielle now empowers others to reconnect with their truth, rewrite old patterns, and build a life rooted in purpose, presence, and personal power. Learn more or connect with her at coachdam.com or on Instagram @Danielle_coachdam.

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What Would Make the Better Story? (Why I Chose the Rain)

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” ~Mark Twain

Let me set the scene.

It’s a blistering summer day in Miami—the kind where the humidity hugs you tighter than your ex at a high school reunion, and the air feels like you’re swimming through warm soup. Not exactly the kind of weather that makes you want to move, let alone sweat through a surprise death-match workout on Muscle Beach.

But there I was.

The trainer—clearly a drill sergeant in a past life—barks out: “One more …

The Questions That Helped Me Reclaim My Life

“You can rewrite the story. You just have to pick up the pen.” ~Unknown

I remember the exact moment I started disappearing.

It was my wedding day. Just before I walked down the aisle, my mother gently reached for my hand and said, “Your hands are freezing!”

She was right. I was ice-cold.

At first, I laughed it off—after all, it was February in Connecticut. Cold hands made sense, right? But that day, something didn’t add up.

We were in the middle of an unusual Indian summer. The air was warm, the sun soft and golden. People were sipping champagne …