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Retzel Lightly is a writer and creator of Cherish & Jots—a space exploring the beautiful mess of being human through essays on creativity, culture, personal growth, life lessons, and well-being. At the heart of her writing is a deep belief in the power of self-direction in a world full of noise. Subscribe to her weekly newsletter for inspiration, intention-setting prompts, and meaningful insights to guide your days with clarity and purpose. Retzel lives in Finland and shares regularly on her website.

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The Beautiful Losses of a Childhood Moved to the Philippines

“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” ~Alan Watts

I must admit, dear reader, that I wasn’t always a fan of change—not even a little. I wouldn’t say I entered this world naturally inclined toward new or unfamiliar things.

Like many children, I found comfort in routine—the joy that comes from ordinary moments repeating themselves. Whether we realize it or not, repetition builds a mental framework that quietly defines our comfort zones.

Maybe that’s where identity begins, slowly shaped over time. And perhaps that’s why, …

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