Giveaway and Interview: Seeing, Knowing, Being by John Greer

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Regardless of our individual beliefs, we all want to feel a sense of wholeness to experience the present moment with peace and connection.

It’s the foundation of spiritual practice, however we define that individually: We want to stop feeling a need to fix ourselves, and instead awaken to the infinite beauty of who we already are.

In his powerful new book Seeing, Knowing, Being, meditation teacher John Greer explores insights from a wide range of spiritual traditions, inviting us to challenge our perceptions and thought patterns to access our inner knowing and experience oneness with the world around us.

Laden with evocative metaphors, the book breaks complex ideas into understandable parts, inviting us to challenge what we think know for a greater awareness of what actually is.

I highly recommend Seeing, Knowing, Being to anyone looking to explore or deepen their understanding of non-duality.

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The Interview

1. Tell us a little about yourself. 

I was born into a loving and deeply religious family. It was a time in my life when all seemed right in the world; every question found an answer and my faith felt strong.

Though I had once considered going into the ministry, when I left for college new and provocative ideas challenged many of my assumptions about religion.

As a young adult, I spent many months traveling through South America, Asia, and Africa, and served two years in Nepal with the Peace Corps. My exposure to other peoples, cultures, and faiths only increased my misgivings and called into question the idea that the religion I happened to be born into had a monopoly on spiritual truth.

My graduate studies—with coursework on experimental analysis of behavior, operant conditioning, and a disregard for matters of the spirit—further reinforced my skepticism.

In 1994, I picked up a book on Zen Buddhism that stirred something deep within me, and my journey back to wholeness began. I have practiced Buddhist insight meditation over the ensuing years. While I have enjoyed teaching meditation over the last decade, it is into this book that I have poured most of my energy. It is the culmination of my own search for what was missing in my life.

2. What inspired you to write Seeing, Knowing, Being?

Foremost, it was a deep desire to give something back—to share with others what has been life-transforming for me.

For decades, an undercurrent of emptiness had replaced the peace of mind I enjoyed as a childhood believer. I felt spiritually lost, vulnerable, and alone in a vast universe apparently insensitive to human consciousness—until I discovered a spiritual practice that fit for me, found my teacher, and began serious vipassana practice,

Now I feel as if I have come home. There is a sense of joy, peace, and freedom, even when I have to face serious challenges, and this book is an attempt to mark the trail as best I can.

3. Your premise is that we don’t have to “fix” ourselves. Why do you think people have a difficult time accepting who they really are?

When we are told that realizing spiritual truth and divine wholeness is simply a matter of awakening to what we already are, it is hard to imagine.

For many, like myself, raised in traditional Christianity, the idea of original sin burdens us like a spiritual version of inherited debt, leaving us with the idea that we need redemption. Then there are the thundering revelations of Copernicus, Descartes, Darwin, and Freud. They jettison many outdated superstitions but, along with them, our very sense of place in the world around us.  And there is clearly little hint of anything exalted in the human behavior portrayed in the evening news.

In contrast, what are called the “nondual” traditions, which I talk about in the book, offer a glimpse of the divine wholeness concealed behind the mask of the separate ego-self.  They tell us that it is our identification with the conventionally recognized ego-self that blinds us to our true nature. 

4. You’ve written that we are taught to see a fragmented reality from early childhood. How are we taught this?

When we are born, our vision is fresh. The world as we first experience it is undifferentiated and timeless, and we have no real perception of self or other.

Our parents initiate the process of identification with self when they name us, and it is endlessly reinforced as we grow up. We are taught to see a reality with numberless divisions, distinctions, labels, and judgments—so that we can find our way through this dualistically envisioned world.

The structure of language itself deepens the delusion even further. Every verb requires a subject, and we say I, me, my,and mine almost every time we speak.

Conceptual habits become unconscious assumptions that automatically frame our reality.

The dos and don’ts, the “yours” and “mine,” of childhood become liberal and conservative, believer and infidel, friend and foe of adulthood, and we seldom even suspect the possibility of seeing in another way. 

5. In Chapter Two, you referenced Alan Watts’ assertion that we “thing” the world we see. What does this mean?

Thought does not tell us what we are seeing but rather what to see. We inherit our vision of reality along with the language we are taught to speak.

As children, we sometimes amused ourselves by imagining faces, animals, or other objects hidden in the clouds. If we were playing the game with our friends or parents, the things we could identify were limited to concepts we shared. Recognizing the conventional representations of such objects—a clown face, a rabbit—we could agree when one was found. Of course, the clown or rabbit existed in our eyes only and had no reality otherwise.

The same is true for everything we perceive. The world is made of “things” differentiated by our mental faculty from an organic process of ever-changing energy patterns. The “things” that seem to exist are created by thought in the same way that children find objects in the clouds. 

6. In the chapter related to time, you highlighted that we have an obsessive relationship with time. How does this wreak havoc on our lives?

In modern society, it is common to feel as if we are living in the fast lane, an unending rush hour where there just don’t seem to be enough hours in the day. In a world of smart phones and email, texting and Twitter, the very devices that are supposed to save us time can have the opposite effect as we hurry to respond to everyone and everything.

The truth is, when our minds are filled with competing thoughts and tensions or we’re frantically multitasking, we are less effective in everything we do. We are distracted drivers, mindless snackers, poor listeners. Jumping from thoughts of the past and future, we do a lot of thinking but little living.

Time is a convention without which modern society could not function, but if we recognize it is only a tool, and not reality, we can more effectively return to the present moment and the natural rhythms of our true nature.

7. In Chapter Six, you’ve written that our deepest attachments often pertain to spiritual matters. Can you expand on that?

The key to understanding attachments—and the reason that issue is so prominent in the “nondual” teachings—is the recognition that letting go is a necessary prelude to liberation.

Ironically, some of our deepest attachments are anchored in spiritual matters. We lose our freedom when we are shackled, no matter the type of restraint. When bound even by the golden chain of our cherished spiritual beliefs, we can become prisoners of our own minds.

Certainty about our own views can close the door to true insights. 

8. How does our delusion of self lead to suffering?

The world is vast and we are only a small part of it. Through our mistaken identification with the separate self we believe ourselves to be,  this tiny fragment of what is, we see life from a very narrow perspective.

With fixed ideas about the way things should be, we struggle all our lives to force the vastness of being to conform to our ideal. But the world does not bend to our personal agendas, and when we cannot let go, we suffer.

Suffering is like rope burn: when we hold on too tightly to our attachments and desires, as to a rope slipping through our hands, pain is inevitable. 

9. What are a few simple things we can do to live in accord with our true nature?

Wherever you are is where you need to be. Practice mindfulness anywhere an opportunity presents itself. Like a mirror, don’t react to what you see. Only witness the flow of life, without clinging or aversion. This passive, utterly receptive form of awareness is crucial to unraveling the riddle of who we are.

Whether you are doing simple, repetitive chores at home or out in public, open your awareness to as many of the sensations in this moment of life as you can. While waiting in a doctor’s office, for example, feel the sensations in your body, your breath. Notice the details of your surroundings. Listen to the ambient sounds.

Open to the possibility of glimpsing the extraordinary in the ordinary, the absolute wonder of it all, as if the place comes alive, as if you awakened from a dream for a moment.

Learn more about Seeing, Knowing, Being: A Guide to Sacred Awakenings on Amazon.

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