Letting Go and Starting Over When It’s Hard

“Letting go isn’t the end of the world; it’s the beginning of a new life.” ~Unknown

This June marked twelve years since I got divorced and moved 1,000 miles away from my hometown. It’s an anniversary that I usually remember, but not one that I tend to dwell on… until this year.

This year, the memories of the demise of my first marriage were hovering at the forefront of my mind.

Maybe it’s because I saw a friend who is roughly the same age I was, going through similar hard decisions. Maybe it’s because my spouse and I were struggling to make a hard decision about an external relationship that isn’t going well.

Whatever the reason, it caused me to reflect on what I’ve learned in the last decade or so.

My ex-husband and I met in high school, when we were seventeen, and had been dating for seven years when we got engaged.

I think on some level we knew, even then, that we shouldn’t get married, that things weren’t that great, but people were starting to ask, and everyone (including us) assumed that we would get married. So we did what we were “supposed” to do.

Things were okay for a little while, and outwardly we seemed happy. Inside, however, things were crumbling. We kept trying to put the pieces back together, but every time we tried to hold tighter, things dissolved into another argument, each cutting more deeply than the last.

By the end we barely spoke, each retreating to separate rooms for the evening. Eventually, I got up the nerve to call it quits. He agreed, and for the most part, the split was amicable.

Honestly, I think my decision to move away was harder for him to accept than the divorce. Maybe because it made things seem more final.

So here I am, twelve years later, older and hopefully wiser, looking back at that time in my life and thinking…

Was leaving painful?


It was horribly hard to leave what I had known for the previous ten years: a spouse, a home, a friendship. How do you walk away from the one who was your closest connection for that long?

Was creating a new life scary?


I moved 1,000 miles from almost everyone and everything I had ever known. Starting over is hard, really hard—especially when you feel like you failed at holding together something as important as a marriage.

Would I do it again?

You bet.

Staying in that relationship was killing us both, because we were growing and changing, but not in the same way—not on the same path. My life now is so vastly different from what I thought it was supposed to be back then. I could never in a million years have planned for my life to be the way it is today.

So what have I learned?

I need room to grow.

In that relationship, I didn’t have space and freedom to explore myself—my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs—and it was stifling. When I had a new idea, I usually received harsh criticism and derision.

Understanding ourselves and what we stand for is vitally important to our happiness, and we need room to figure those things out.

Relationships need to be elastic. When we stretch past the boundaries of what we know in the relationship, those boundaries either expand to hold the new ideas or they crack and fall apart.

I was stretching, and the relationship was trying to restrict me. Eventually it couldn’t take the strain.

I had to let go.

Letting go of that relationship meant letting go of people’s expectations about what my life should be (including my own). It was so hard, and it felt like everything I knew was falling apart, like the world was crumbling around me.

But there is so much possibility without those expectations. Starting over gave me an opportunity to craft a new life for myself in ways I had never imagined.

Yes, it was hard. Yes, it was scary. I hope I never have to start from scratch again, but now I know that I have a choice.

We all have choices. We can choose our direction, every single day.

Letting go sometimes means letting it all go.

We talked about remaining friends (and I know some of my friends have made that work), but honestly, we couldn’t remain friends and still move on. I left it all behind and started fresh.

When you rebuild a house that has been damaged by a fire or other disaster, you don’t just start building on top of what is there. If you do, it will quickly fall apart again. First, you have to remove the debris and get back down to the most solid foundation.

The solid foundation in my life is me. Always. I had to let go so that I could find myself.

These lessons are relevant for any relationship.

Whether it’s a romance, a friendship, or even family relationship, sometimes you have to take a hard look and make a hard choice. Even if the choice is to stick it out and not let go.

When you take the time to really know yourself—know your values, your beliefs, and what is important to you—you can make the right choice, even when it’s hard.

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About Tina Robbins

Tina Robbins is a Core Spirit Coach, helping women rediscover who they are after years of letting other people drive their lives. You can find her at, on Facebook, or on twitter @openroadscoach.

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  • Thomas

    Thank you so much. I can imagine how hard was that for you but I know it made you stronger & for that I want to thank you to take the time to write this wonderful post. Like you, I’m so glad I walked away from an intoxicated relationship. Namaste 🙂

  • Metasophos

    I couldn’t imagine a more timely post, and with Independence Day just a few days away. I’ve started over more than a couple times, and like you, better came from it. Thanks for your insight and thanks for sharing. 🙂

  • Akilah

    Tina, I am so grateful for you today! THANK YOU!!!!

    This!!!  “Relationships need to be elastic. When we stretch past the boundaries of
    what we know in the relationship, those boundaries either expand to
    hold the new ideas or they crack and fall apart.”

    That is so profound, so worth remembering, and such an empowering tool for decision-making! I don’t even know you and I feel both proud of and excited for you as you use these life-lessons to enhance your life and the lives of others!

    Wonderful share, Tina!

  • Kikig71

    Thanks for having the courage to share. I also appreciate how you point out that this applies to any kind of relationship. I think it can be particularly challenging moving on from relationships you thought would of course always be there and understanding it is a process–some days you just want to go back to how it was when it was all good but you know you can’t just turn the clock back on everything else and  trying to convince yourself the problems really weren’t as bad as you know they were isn’t really being truthful with yourself about who you are and what you need out of the relationship. I guess you just have to have faith that if you keep taking positive steps forward with your new life then eventually it will evolve to be more of what you want and need.

  • Chantal_brigden

    It’s great to start from scratch, move away, begin again if its just you, but if you have children that philosophy doesn’t quite work.

    Good post though x

  • Lily

    Thank you. I’m going through one of the roughest patches of my relationship. My husband and i got together young, and waited 7 years to marry. After 15 years together, he now wants an open relationship and I don’t. We’ve always been able to stretch and grow together, supporting each other along the way and it hurts more every day for both of us. He’s willing to put his new needs aside to save the relationship (and we’ve been in therapy for 10 months to try to work things out) but I think it’s more troubling for me to be in a relationship where my partner feels stifled (not to mention the other baggage it brings up).

    I know that I need exactly what you mention – to take the time to know my values, beliefs and what is important to me so I can make the right choice for myself. Thank you so much for this post. 

  • Jamesgummer

    Great post!

  • Roy james

    sometimes you have to take a step back and re evaluate what your life and relationships are,its never easy but still essential.

  • Apostro

    I agree we all need to let go and find ourselves. 

  • Nury

    You left, not because the relationship wasn’t working, because he lowered your interest level and so you fell out of love. That’s why you left.

  • Anonymous

    “especially when you feel like you failed at holding together something as important as a marriage”

    Being the dumpee, that feeling of failure was by far the biggest thing to come to terms with.  To me, divorce was not something you do because life happens and things don’t always go well.  I needed to come to terms with was that I had married someone who just didn’t share that same belief.

    As far as letting go, what I wished I had been able to know earlier was that as soon as “… or else I’m leaving” thinking occurs, the marriage is over.  With that frame of mind, her actually leaving was just the inevitable next step.  As soon as the threat of separating or divorcing is used to try to control the other, then from that point forward there is appeasement at best, not respect and definitely not love.

    Though it is easy to say “don’t beat yourself up over it”, the mind doesn’t let go that easily, especially when you never stopped loving your significant other.

    It took quite some time for me to reach and, more importantly, embrace the acceptance phase but when that finally was reached the hurt went away, for the most part.

    Ironically, about a year after she left she wanted to reconcile though by then mutual trust and respect was gone and there was nothing left to build on.

    Had “letting it all go” been my course of action earlier I would have been able to start my rebuilding sooner.  I do have peace of mind now though knowing that I was willing to keep trying, that I didn’t give up — regardless of the outcome.

  •  it can be a really hard realization for sure. It takes time to heal so be gentle with yourself and allow that space. I am glad my experience can give you some hope.

  •  Thank you so much , Akilah! It’s really important to remember to be flexible, and sometimes it’s a difficult thing to do. I am glad that piece of the post spoke to you!

  • Deanna

    Beautiful post Tina! I love the phoenix rising theme. Its good to remember form an ending can come a new beginning.

  •  ” I guess you just have to have faith that if you keep taking positive
    steps forward with your new life then eventually it will evolve to be
    more of what you want and need.”

    This is exactly it! Keep moving forward. Sometimes it’s easy, sometimes it’s hard, but if you just press on you will get where you need to be. Thanks for commenting 🙂

  • Tina

     Thanks, Chantal. You are correct, if there are kids involved it is much more difficult to start from scratch. However, the main thing is to be true to who you are and what is best for you and the kids. That is the most important part.

  • Tina

     Thank you!

  • Tina

     My heart is with you, Lily, this is a rough course to have to tread, for sure. Understanding your values is vital making the best decisions for both of you. I wish you all the best.

  • Tina

    I agree. I think it’s important to assess things in your life pretty regularly. It can help catch issues early on, before things have gone so far that they can’t be fixed. Thank you.

  • Tina

     That’s an interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing!

  • Tina

     Understanding yourself is really a powerful process, and yes, often letting go of something or someone is part of it. Thank you

  • Tina

     Thank you, Thomas. I am glad you were also able to give yourself a fresh start. Namaste

  • Tina

     Thank you so much. I agree that this is a good time to think about where you have been and where you are going 🙂

  • Ann Marie

    So interesting to have this post come up right now.  My 15 year marriage is ending at the hand’s of my husband, I’ve decided to move to another state, and will be starting over in business again.  Seems I’ve done this all before, but never at age 47 and never feeling like the rug was just pulled right out from underneath me.  However, through it all I’ve remained grateful for all I have and have had.  For the love and man that was such a huge part of my life for so long, for the person I am today because of this relationship.  Starting over is always scary, but it can also be filled with excitement and joy if you make room in your heart for these emotions.  Loved your story Tina.  Thanks for sharing it and for the point of view that starting over, starting fresh, can sometimes be a blessing we need. 

  • Kris

    It’s not quite that easy if kids are involved…

  • Cocolettie

    This literally was my story! Down to the timing and years! Wow! Thank you for your story and insight! ~Cam

  • broken hearted fool lol

    I’m currently struggling after my ex partner decided he no longer knew what he wanted after 4 and a half years living together for 3 and a half of them. I turned 24 yesterday and it was the worst birthday I can remember as he wasn’t there. I feel so silly as we still have seldom contact we’re on about meeting up on Thursday as I haven’t had no closure it may not be the best thing and my friends are advising me against it. I know I will probably be upset and taking 2 steps back but I feel I will regret it if I don’t go and see him. I think hopefully I will get the closure I need an no longer feel the need to contact him, he’s now seeing someone else already but he’s telling me it’s not what I think. I can’t understand why he is still lieing to Me. people say I’m still young and will look back in a few years an be grateful for the experience but we had our whole lives planned which maybe we shouldn’t of done but I just don’t know how to stop feeling so pitiful. he’s told me that hes keeping himself busy to not think about me which makes me feel worse. everyone says he probably enjoying the freedom but by jumping into another relationship I just feel so worthless…

  • Lily

     Thank you, Tina.

  • Petrina Proctor

    I really like your insight about a spouse using the threat of divorce as a means of control and that there is a lack of respect and love in that situation. That happened in my marriage for the last couple of years and I’m grateful that someone else understands and has made the point like you have. Thank you.

  • Wow, thanks Cam. I appreciate the feedback and support and I haope things have turned out well for you!

  • Of course, having children can make things more complicated for sure, and starting over doesn’t necessarily mean moving far away like I did. You always have to consider what’s best for your situation.

  • Thanks, Deanna. (also, I now have “Closing Time” by Semisonic stuck in my head…”every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end”) 

  • It takes a lot of strength and often a lot of time to get through the hard parts. It was about 5 years before I even considered getting married again.

    I love that you recognize that the peach of mind comes from knowing that your choices were based in your values and beliefs. Thank you for sharing your insights and lessons.

  •  “Starting over is always scary, but it can also be filled with excitement and joy if you make room in your heart for these emotions”. Absolutely this! Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you all the success you deserve!

  • hang in there! It takes time to get through the hard. Think about what is really most important to you in a relationship. How do you want it to feel? focus on that to help get you through. Wishing you the best.

  • Dale

    Thank you, Tina! You wrote what I’ve been going through. I haven’t made that hard choice yet, but I see it’s inevitability peeking around the corner. 

    Your words have affirmed what I know deep down. That is… It’s going to hurt, but it is not the end. It’s just the beginning and there is relief afterwards. Thank you.

  • I am glad I could be of service, even if it’s a hard choice. Be gentle with yourself and you will emerge stronger for the journey. Thank you.

  • Deb3m

    This post and comments interest me and I raise the following questions as a point of discussion not as a point of view 🙂 It is interesting in that compared to many others ( and this is not meant in any detrimental way to the writer) it appears a more self serving view as in ‘I made hard decisions that upset a lot of people but i am fine now’. Surely it is always easy to make difficult decisions when they are guided by what we want rather than someone else regardless of the origin of those decisions and also just because we are fine now does not automatically mean they were the best decisions?. One commenter is surely correct in the view ‘the relationship wasn’t working, because he lowered your interest level and so you fell out of love’ but can we say that is true without insight into that person or their own internal thoughts – thoughts which they probably also did not understand at that time? It is possible of course that younger people get caught up as you did in an unsuitable relationship but what about those in their 40s or 50s after long term relationships? But it is not possible to apply universal truths to either the outcomes for the dumped person or anyone else involved particularly children – so i cannot see how the views expressed can apply to those people – or even if they are meant to.  Indeed where children are involved no matter how the instigator frames their terms  there is always a loss which they are forced to react to and not always in their best interests. If we accept that for most of us we would need to put a great deal of consideration into the effects of our actions on children then why not others? It could appear that the need to put the self above the the relationship at all costs is another example fo the throwaway society we currently inhabit? Can we possibly pronounce our actions as good if their intention for others or outcomes are not so and we are unaware of all the outcomes? As I said a very interesting post which oscillates between the self and the greater good. Thankyou!

  • It’s not so easy if you have both built your entire careers in the same city.  You cannot simply walk away from a career you worked your entire life to build and start from scratch, especially in this recession.  And if you do stay in the same city, you can bet that every single crack on the sidewalk is going to remind you of something from the former relationship.  You are going to lose most of your social life because mutual friends won’t touch either of you with a 10 foot pole.  And if you have kids on top of that, you can just forget about anything.  I’m not disagreeing with the theories you espouse, I’m just thinking they are impractical in real world situations.  Walking away from a bad relationship is one thing.  It’s not so easy to walk away from the other cogs in the machinery of the work-a-day life.  So some of this article sounds selfish to me.  The real world hurts – it’s supposed to.

  • Autumnkat

    Interesting response.  I didn’t read this thinking that Tina was advising anyone to move away from a bad relationship.  I read this thinking that was what SHE did in order to fully start over.  Sure it is different if you have a career that ties you to a city, or children.  The point is that sometimes you have to start over – and for someone with kids or a career that fixes them to a place – that might look different than moving away.  Take from it what you will, you know?

  • Azgari

    Great article. well written and very profound. Thank you.

  • i’ve made the decision to let go of a family member and in turn i must also exclude myself from certain family events. it is so hard but i hope when i look back i can see myself with a respectful eye. 

  • Kay


    I feel for you. I spent 15 years with someone who turned out to be a demon masquerading as a saint. What was best for me was breaking all ties with him and moving away. You need to find out who you are as an individual and not spend your time obsessing about what he is doing. It is hard… believe me, I know. At least you found out early.

    Family and friends are a great source of comfort…so is keeping yourself busy. You need to grieve and come to grips with the facts, but don’t waste too much time in self pity. Remember that many people go through the same thing or worse and overcome it. You can too.

  • ShugieMoon

    Your article hits home with me now.  After 32 years (yess it can happen after that long too) I am leaving.  I’ve been told I’m selfish, I’m too old, and what’s the point after so long.  It’s about finding out who I really am and want to be able to live that way for however many years I have left.  Starting over is scary; one is supposed to be settled long before now and looking toward the end together.  But it’s the years and changes that have made the difference, it wasn’t supposed to be like this.
    Yes, I’m scared. I’m lonely-leaving a connection and friendship of most of my life. I also feel selfish, sad, overwhelmed, disconnected and feel like a failure.  And he is hurt and doesn’t understand, at all.  So why do this? 
    Because I’m not “me” in this marriage. And I want to be me, I need to be me, I need to find out who I really am after all this time.

    “Letting go isn’t the end of the world; it’s the beginning of a new life.” ~Unknown

  • Bhavesh Dalal

    Thanks for sharing!

  • Hi Tina,
    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I can relate to your painful experience.
    I got married in June 2010 and currently going through divorce proceedings. I tried everything to save my relationship, but I couldn’t.  I had lost my identity in trying to mend the broken pieces of our relationship.  ‘Letting go isn’t the end of the world; it’s the beginning of a new life’ but making that choice was very hard. I still cry over the fact that the person who meant everything to me just abandoned me. Starting over again is scary but there is no other option. I’ve shifted back to my home country. Life feels great with family & friends. I have rejoined my previous office. Two year gap has made work quite challenging. But, I will manage.
    Wish me luck because, I will be signing by first petition on 16th July.
    Stephanie – All the best! >hugs< Trust me all of us will come out much stronger! Take care

  • Meg Dias

    Tina, I’m going through it right now. And my story is very similar to yours. How can we ensure that “will work”? Impossible, it was actually good, but not elastic enough. I am suffering a lot, but your writing has helped me to see the positive side of the situation.
    Thank you!

  • ava

    Thank you for sharing this. I currently broke up with my fiance and now, a few weeks later I find myself thinking “I could’ve chosen to be happy,why wasn’t I?”. And my fiance always said that when you love someone,there are no “I love you but…” So how can I be sure of my decision to let go? I did love him. Why did I feel unhappy? Could I have stayed in the relationship and “made myself happy”, since happiness is a choice?   

  • Dcphillygermany

    I read this article 2-3 times before I worked up the courage to respond…

    I am currently going through a separation (and I expect, an eventual divorce) from my wife of 12 years and girlfriend of 2 years prior.  She had been unfaithfull for at least half of our marriage, is a problem drinker, very dishonest and secretive and I knew it was time to go when the thought of spending the rest of my life with her made me nasueous.

    Yet still, she has been gone for almost a month and while I don’t want her back, I am angry at her and struggling with mixed feelings about revenge, loss, loneliness and uncertainty/fear for the future.  I know, too, it’s easy to blame her when she showed indications from the start that she was capable of the aforementioned behaviors and I know I am probably really angry at myself for putting myself in this situation.  I have lived and worked outside the US for over ten years now; my family and friends are at home and while I’m not lonely, I do feel very alone.  My daughter from a previous relationship, who lived with us will be moving the States for college in two weeks and the prospect of being abroad for the first time without my wife and daughter, despite the problems in my marriage, is mildly terrifying.  For the majority of our marriage, “our” friends were her friends.  And although I am financially secure and fit for my age (40), I just don’t know how to feel right now…

    I am thankful that I was finally able to end the relationship – it really should have ended 5 years ago.  I just want to fast forward and be done with the letting go part and move on to the “lesson learned and I’m a better person for it” part…  How do I get over these feelings and when does it start getting better?  I know this is where I need to be right now, but I’m having a hard time focusing on the opportunity with all this crisis in the way!

  • Ballhockeymom

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I find my self in a very similar boat right now. My husband and I started dating at age 17 and were together for 8 years before we got married and had 2 kids all in the span of 3 years. Now 17 years later(together for 24 years) we are separating. Things have been going down hill for the last 4 years after he found his new “best friend” there wasn’t anything sexual between them but she seemed to bring everything that was wrong in our relationship to a boiling point and we just could fix anything. My husband and I are actually splitting on good terms and will probably end up being better friends then a couple but I’m very angry with his friend and her very inappropriate behavior and I need to know how to let go of my anger, not that I want her in my life, I just want to let it go.

  • Karina

    This post really hits me. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years and I knew we weren’t supposed to be together but love blinded me. We were complete opposites but yet we both risked being together for so long, even planning marriage after college. It’s been 6 months since he dumped me and even though I know what a horrible person he is I can’t help but still think about him. It’s been so hard for me to move on but your post gives me hope. Thank you,

  • robert

    Dc, I came across your comment and felt compelled to respond. I am in the midst of going through the discovery phase ( of my wife’s infidelities). We have been married for 16 years, and have three beautiful children together. Over the last month, she admitted to three affairs in the last two years. One of those lasting 10 months. This is one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever faced, having three kids between us makes it even extra difficult. I guess the moving on part is the hardest thing to grasp. I know your post is three months old, but if you can share with me anything that has helped you, please do…

  • Tiny Warrior

    As the adult former child of two married parents who fought constantly, I want to remind you kids are more resilient than you may think and can weather the storm of a separation or divorce. When you are a child in that situation, the worst thing you can hear a parent say is, “We’re staying together for you.”

    My mother would say this through broken teeth and blood from my father’s punches. My father would say this drunk and miserable with himself. I for one prayed steadily they would divorce, and they never did. I grew up envying the kids whose parents divorced because they didn’t get woken up by crashes, screams and gunshots every Saturday night. Maybe mommy or daddy was gone except every other weekend, but by golly those children slept in a quiet, peaceful home.

    My siblings and I now view romantic relationships with extreme suspicion. The baby, my sister, is happily married. She was born after the most vicious marital warfare period between my parents. Elder brother and I grew up seeing it ALL.

    Neither of us is married. He is 50. I am 44. I will never marry because of what I saw.

    If a marriage doesn’t work, stop using the children as your excuse. Staying together and forcing them to watch your misery is a form of child abuse.


  • Cams

    When you rebuild a house that has been damaged by a fire or other disaster, you don’t just start building on top of what is there. If you do, it will quickly fall apart again. First, you have to remove the debris and get back down to the most solid foundation.

    The solid foundation in my life is me. Always. I had to let go so that I could find myself.
    This is beautiful! I have been on here all day reading articles to help me deal with a recent break up and this is the one quote that hit me the hardest. It has helped me so much. Thank you 🙂

  • kapi

    i really needed to read this. many thanks from the bottom of my heart. i know and believe that i will get

  • Anonymous

    My situation was different and I just picked up and am rebuilding. My marriage lasted about 14 years after 6 months of dating. We divorced started in 2002 and ended in 2005. We got back together after 2 years in 2005, shacking up until his very unexpected death last February. The youngest of our 3 children is graduating in a month, and I was offered a job 14000 miles away. Grandma is house sitting with her until she grads. I have moved to a location I know nothing about, no relatives (closest is 2 hours away for a new position that is so so. But I so badly needed to move., Memories, good and bad, were all over. Plus afte rmy youngest grads, moving was my plan. I just got a jump on the dates with the unexpected job offer.
    Now 5 months afte rmy move, I am finding my, quit smoking, eating right, trying to run a little bit and starting to find the “Happy”. We all deal differently and same in some ways, but it’s best we deal.
    Great post!!

  • Kim

    It isn’t going to easy of course not but isn’t your happiness worth it? I have a 2 yr old and a 12 yr old and I’m divorcing my husband. We had several issues and are leaving amicably. There is nothing he can say to change my mind. It’s time to press forward. It’s hard as hell, but time heals all wounds.

  • Calin

    I know you wrote this a while ago, but it really hit home for me. Thanks for sharing.

  • Grecia_87

    Great post, I’m going through the same situation, with the exception that we have two small children and Moving Away Is Not A Possibility At the moment. I feel So guilty For Letting Things end this way, since I didn’t grow up around my dad either.

  • t

    amazing, thanks for sharing : )

  • terence mitchell

    love my wife but there to much demonic spirit that are in this relationship she is never going to let these spirit go she feeds off negative engery that keep these dominic spirits around she all ways talking about the past all the time she keep saying i am the problem i really want to stick it out but her negative side keep getting in the way she say iam the problems of this whole relationship i understand who she is now i see more negative spirits than posative i say to my self is she a true child of god

  • terence mitchell

    I have read some of yall comments and you right when you have kids it not easy to walk away because you have invested some much time in that relationship mentall phically finicailly sexaully but the first level we started on was a spiritaul level that god put togther its god doing that we are to togther

  • terence mitchell

    i will tell how we have met i hung out with a homeboy name black he was a homeless dude that always stayed down town alot he told me he was getting ready to have a son by this women he met he told me she was a good peson and he was taking care home i did not now this women that he spoke about but he was happy he would go home and tell this women about me telling her that i was the preacher man that given him spiritaul wisdom all the time i started talking to this girl name pat and his girlfried and her was eighth grade homegirls me and pat seen them two at the socail service black and marie me and black took our conversation out side the two girl talk and laugh two years went past and i got back u p on the chatline looking to meet a good women i met a very nice lady as i thought we spent a weekened togther i got to talking about my x girl friend out of all i said soming about pat thats when we now we new each other from she was with black and i was with pat the blessing in this story is iam now taking care of that women black talk about and his son so we are ment to be togther god dont make no mistakes i heard

  • Emily

    hello to the world at large I want to share my testimony to you all which i believe you can still try your best to give a testimony like this so i was married to Williams at first will both love each other but short time he started a new behavior which i cannot even explain to any one then i keep it to my self hopping one day he will change for good no way he did not change so i was in pain every day don`t no what to do on till one day when a friend of mine visited me in my office she met me crying then she was asking me what is going on i try to be calm but i could not then i open up to her telling me there is a way out which i will do before he left me with my kids i look up and not knowing what to do then i ask her to tell me. shortly she open up to me and say there is a man called Musa he is a spirit man he can do it with in three days then i look an said okay i will try my best to contact him four days later, my husband did not come home i called his phone switch off then i try my possible best i did not hear from him so i began to look for one way for a help so i remember my friend told me about one man called Dr Ogun i quickly run to my friend asking her if she still have Dr Ogun contact then she gave it to me that was how i contacted this great man of spirit he did it for me so quick so now i can now control my husband in any thing even i can tell him that i don`t want him outside today he will not. Now i have a happy family so contact him via email


    HELLO,I am here to testify on how Dr Lawrence help me to bring back my ex-husband who left me 3 months ago i got his email on the internet on an article how he had help so many people,so i emailed the Dr and tell my problems to him and after that day he gave me assurance of 3days,to my greatest surprise my husband came back to me in third day of contacting him,i want to say a very big thank you to

  • Angelica

    My name is Angelica. I want to testify the great work of Dr.Zack Balo for helping me to get my Ex boyfriend and my job back.I thank Dr.Zack Balo for helping me to recover all what i have lost before back,this is why I said I must tell the whole world, what he did for me is real, if you need his help you can contact him via

  • matta

    Thanks for making my family happy again, my father came back home and he can even take us out, something he never think of before! i wonder Dr egbenakhue are you god or what? amazing you make things happen! i will .Thank you very much. from Holland if you need his help contact email address

  • kath

    Hello i want to give thanks to the great doctor Lawrence who help mein getting back my ex-boyfriend i saw a testimony post by miss Kate from Spain about how the great doctor Lawrence had helped her, i decide to email him and to my greatest surprise my ex-boyfriend came back to me after three days of contacting him.i simply want to say thanks for what he had done for me and am so happy may he live long. if you have any problem just email him and you will not regret contacting him.PHONE;+2348143988536

  • jasmi

    I want to thank God for using prophetjakula as my source of savior after 9 years of my marriage and my lover left me alone for 6 months,Have just been heart broken until i go in contact with prophetjakula after i saw a ladies testimony on how she was helped by this same man,So i decided to get in contact with him and when i told him all my problems he said this is not a problem that everything will be ok in 2 days time.Exactly the 2nd day my husband called me i was shocked and what surprise me the most was that his behavior was normal as the man i got married to.Am so grateful to prophetjakula for what he did for me, if you wish to contact him Email:

  • jasmi

    I want to thank God for using prophetjakula as my source of savior after 9 years of my marriage and my lover left me alone for 6 months,Have just been heart broken until i go in contact with prophetjakula after i saw a ladies testimony on how she was helped by this same man,So i decided to get in contact with him and when i told him all my problems he said this is not a problem that everything will be ok in 2 days time.Exactly the 2nd day my husband called me i was shocked and what surprise me the most was that his behaviour was normal as the man i got married to.Am so grateful to prophetjakula for what he did for me, if you wish to contact him Email:

  • Helen

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Prophet Mike for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much grateful to Prophet Mike. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help you can reach him on his email address:

  • Kandey

    I can’t thank you enough for the peace of mind I am now feeling that the curse against me is gone. I am feeling more confident and happier every day. I know now that there is someone like you, helping people like me, who are victims of evil people and their curses. Bless you and the work you do. I can’t thank you enough and now I am finally able to sleep at night knowing that you have worked so hard on my behalf to rid me of this years long curse. Thank you. Thank you.

  • mary

    do you need your ex back contact this man for help now

  • Karan

    All my thanks to Dr.Ameniwewe. My ex-husband and I have been back together for two months now. And it’s been even better than ever. We’ve been talking about our future, about moving in together and also getting married soon. Things between us are great. I thank you for helping to bring him back to me!, and in case you want to also contact him for help email address is

  • Amanda Filsinger

    But what if you have kids? You can’t move 1,000 miles away. I feel like I need to get 1’000 miles away because I DO love my husband but we are not a healthy couple and need to divorce but we have kids. We married young and it’s been 13 years. I just told him through text literally one hour ago that we need to call it quits. He sent me a text saying he loved me and I sent him a break up note. We are both at work for the night. I’m looking for sanity, and support right now because I’m picnicking.

  • Amanda Filsinger

    I meant panicking…darn autocorrect

  • Amanda Filsinger

    I really need to talk to you. I’m drowning here…on the verge of leaving my marriage after only 13 years. I’m.dying. sorry, typing on phone and my eyes hurt from crying so I might have typos.
    Something that I just realized today is that I’m not just about to leave my husband…I am leaving myself. The “me” I have been for 13 years….which isn’t the real me, like you say.
    As I was walking through the house today it felt like some surreal dream. Seeing my familiar surroundings as if I weren’t in my body. Out of body experience type of moment. Everything felt familiar yet foreign. I feel homesick in my own home now that I’ve seen everything through different perspective. And I’m terrified. I want the comfort back. The routine and familiarity.
    My life isn’t horrible. He doesn’t beat me. He doesn’t have any addictions. He’s a great guy. I love him.
    But we have grown apart and are so different…we constantly.frustrate esch.other and neither of us are being authentic to ourselves.
    I feel sick.

  • Blah blah

    Then get some counselling and spend some time figuring out why you have grown apart. Most times it’s because you are both walking in eggshells and you are both afraid if the outcome. People give up too easy. May as well get a divorce. Did you even think of your vows ? Did you mean them when you said them.? People cry and whine too much that they are not happy. Get happy. By communicating with each other and taking criticism as an Opportunity to look at yourself. Stop crying that you have grown apart. Grow apart and be yourselves. Stay together and be married. Get over yourself.

  • cynthia334

    hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify also. i saw a post on how a lady got her husband back and i decided to try this prophet that helped her because my relationship was crashing. this prophet helped me and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my husband now treats me like a queen even when he had told me before he doesn’t love me anymore. well, i can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship try him here is his email of a truth he really helps again his email his

  • Maria A Thompson

    I also want to use this opportunity to thank a wonderful and gifted
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  • Nosa Jeffery

    i want to give thanks and i will always give thanks to DR.agbadi who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last week will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to DR.agbadi and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email or you can also reach him through his mobile number,+2347067607812 or visit his website at

  • Natasha Cater

    I am Mrs.Cater i reside in Geneva Switzerland,I want to share this to you,i had trouble in my home for six years,my husband abandon me and my children because of a girl she met in his work place,during this time he no longer care for me and children,it was a horrific experience for me and the children,but i thank God who resolve all this issues,a friend of mine who have been through similar ordeal introduce me to a good man Doc.Zulu,when i contacted this man he told me that my husband will come back to me,at first i didn’t believe it,but behold just two weeks ago my husband came back home seeking for my and the children forgiveness,thanks to God who use Doc.Zulu to restore my home,you too can contact Doc.Zulu if you have any trouble in your relationship or offices via his email address;,God bless you all.


    I’m PROPHET OKIJO from Nigeria am 63 years old with 4 children graduated from the mental universe of Indian plant 1981st Was i bought my mental powers and particularism worries me is the mental powers, I help people to solve problems around the world to achieve their goals and dreams in the world, I have another temple, and they are located in India, Ghana, Israel, the Philistines , I am currently in Nigeria was my first temple is because, in case you want to reach me, it is my home address PROPHET OKIJO way Lugard str. Lagos State of Nigeria, or you want to contact me through my personal email ( Notice that if you have been searching for any kind of spiritual help, for example. Making quick money, promotion of employment, political forces, plant care, looking for children, supernatural powers and more (your destiny lies in your hand) to watch you at the welcome …..

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    4.ex back (his beloved escaped from you)?

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  • jessy

    After 6 moths of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a prophet called saibaba of saibaba temple which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular prophet. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he prayed to stop divorce and get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called trisha , she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever. prophet saibaba you are a gifted man and thank you for everything you had done in my life. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine prophet, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on

  • Elizabeth Rosas

    Hello I am Brendy ,I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back.I was going crazy when my husband left me and my two kids for another woman last month, But when i met a friend that introduced me to drehiaghe the great messenger to the oracle of dr ehiaghe healing home,I narrated my problem to dr ehiaghe about how my ex Husband left me and my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,24 hours later,My Ex Husband called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me and the kids before now and one week after my Husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in a very big company here in USA were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact dr ehiaghe on his personal email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: and your problem will be solve.

  • unsure1975

    I am going threw the same thing I really don’t want to walk alway and start all over again its like I’m loosing my best friend my love of my life that helped me see a better side of life before I with the guy of been with for 12 year has been the back bone I needed my last relationship with my husband if that’s what you want to call it he beat me broke my jaw I was ice for 2 weeks with cop’s at my door only family could come see me after he did that yes I was dumb and listen to I will never hit you again I’m sorry will yes I did the stupid thing ever went and got married and had a beautiful little girl that her real dad does not see her cause he chose to move to Tennessee and get busted with all kinds of stuff so of course back to pension once again for 10 years this time he won’t give me my device and why I was pregnant with his little girl he broke my ribs and blacken my eye I made my mind up as soon as he goes away I was leaving of course he said things would change nope not at all when I had to work on Sunday he would have his ex their to see him so I went one our 1 to the day we got married I went to the pension and called it stops never went back and that year I did strong with him paid and took care of the baby by myself plus sent him 200 to 500 a myth in jail told him I was done you r locked up and still having chick’s up here to see you and I did walk away I had a male friend that was the best that’s all we was friend’s in the beginning well our friendship turned into the most greatest thing I have ever had in my life no more worry about the cop’s riding the house nothing and for once in 8 year I felt free I had an best friend lover everything I wanted in life now 12 years down the road I’m at the point that I don’t feel loved wanted I do everything I work come home cook clean do clothes get my little one ready for the morning now it’s like I lost everything I have and I have NOTHING TO START OVER WITH IM A WAIT REE SO I GET PAID 2.13HR AND YEA I GET TIPS BUT NOT ALL THE TIME ARE THEY GOOD AND HERE IN NJ IS SO MUCH MONEY I’m really lost if anyone has any suggestions please let me know I would love to hear!!!! I don’t eat sleep nothing every one keeps asking me about what’s wrong I just don’t know what to say no more

  • SMurfberry

    I hope you see this and I hope you respond. I am still in love with my ex, my child’s father. He has already moved on, he didn’t waste time its only been a year. Our child is 18 months. He comes around and spends time with her and that is what hurts me the most because while he is around it feels like we are a family again but the reality is we are not. I can not focus, I cant sleep or eat well. We had our good times and bad times but nothing so bad I wish he would give us another chance. It’s like I learned so much being apart from him and I want to show him. I don’t think he loves me anymore. I never cheated or hurt him but when I got pregnant I was extremely controlling and emotional so he had an affair and cheated on me while I was pregnant. I feel he is still a good guy and I love him so much I just pray to God he comes back home. I guess that just me not wanting to accept things. I honestly don’t know what to do. I have not told him how I feel because I dont want rejection. Please help. If you are still around please email me I would love to hear something from someone soon

  • Shanker

    Very Powerful Presentation. I appreciate your maximizing power in your ideas by choosing strong words. Rebuilding is one solid example. letting Go is sometimes Letting Go All.

    I wish, I’m so forthright as you are. Wow!

  • Emmanuelle Rodriguez

    I never did have a long marriage with the woman I loved. In fact, my marriage only lasted 4 months.. my ex wife lived in Switzerland, and I lied in America. I sacrificed all my belongings, job, car, and the safety net of the comfort I had at home. I had never been to Europe, and we loved each other so much, to the point where we just wanted to get married. It happened all very quickly, however i never forced the marriage on her. I gave her a choice, she didn’t have to say ‘yes’ to me. But she did, I was pretty serious about her and thought for sure she was the one for me. I had been through some terrible break ups and i had dated some very cruel women in my life. I thought this was my time to shine and meet someone i felt would change all of that. My pride got the best of me 🙁 I never did last very long. We never had any huge arguments or fights about anything in particular. I noticed we felt differently about a lot of subjects, but for me it made me love her more. Knowing that she had her own opinions and thoughts and feelings about things, increased my love. I never would have thought that maybe it affected her more. She never gave me any warnings, and never told me how she felt. One day after christmas, I noticed she seemed so quiet and in thought of something. I asked her to sit down and talk about what was bothering her, and she finally told me she had felt like she made a mistake getting married so fast. I tried to make her feel better about it, I thought maybe she might have been afraid of committing, and maybe that’s really the truth. But one day she just told me she was no longer in love with me, she only wanted to be friends. Hearing that, really hurt me a lot. I thought for sure she wanted this marriage. I asked so many times for her to be forthcoming if this was not what she wanted. I felt lied to, and betrayed. I had wasted so much money, so much time and effort just to be with her in another country i had no knowledge of the language. I tried to keep it together as best I could but she seemed so sure of herself that she wanted me to leave. I was angry and confused, I had nothing in the US to come back to. I couldn’t get my old job back or my home. I had to go back to my parents house to live. it has been a nightmare and it still is for me. Right now I have been trying to give her space and time.. I have been giving myself some time. I have failed much of the time though, sometimes i have a habit of wanting to harp on her about what she did wrong. I know that makes no difference and makes things worse for me and her. I’ve been really trying to stop doing that now.. I just feel depressed about this. I wish she had told me she never wanted this.. I miss her, but still i feel betrayed. She wants to be friends, but how can i ever be friends with her? It’s just not the same as it was in the beginning. Now it feels awkward and weird to talk to her and I can’t flirt or do any of the natural things we used to. All i can do is let this marriage go and hope that one day i can get over this.

  • Akilah Brayboy

    This blog just chronicled most of what I went through….Thanks for posting and sharing. I was married 9 years and together 11. We were truly trying to hold on and it still crumbled. Had to be one of the toughest lessons I have walked through and still walking through…but what you said about not having room in the relationship to be yourself. It was the same for me. I felt so hindered….the creativity would not flow and it was so horrible existing in an abusive relationship. I would like to share my blog with you…I am writing now more to get all of those feelings out.

  • abbie

    I feel for you, I literally just had the divorce talk 20mins ago and he is sitting 3 feet away from me watching tv and i feel like i want to die….

  • abbie

    I am unemployed right now, does he charge? Thx for tip….I’m feeling desperate, I have little desire to live….lots behind this….men i pick can never help me when im low or in need, but im a codependent nurse, wife,mother, etc…

  • ignoredmommy

    it would kind of be hard to communicate if you try to let him know that there is something wrong with the relationship and all he does is try to ignore it. I tried that so many times for years but his answer is that i am stupid and doesn’t want to put his part on counseling or even trying to get to talk to me at all. You can put as much time as you want in the marriage, but if there is no response from the partner, it would actually make it hard in the marriage and that is how mine is dying out; no matter how much communication i have tried to get from him and he doesn’t even want counseling. I think a marriage should be that both partners should be putting an effort in the marriage, not just one.

  • kathee

    I remember lying in my room when I was in high school and writing in a journal to my future husband. I’d write all sorts of notes and questions and things I’d wonder or ask this man when I eventually met him. I would wonder where he was and what he was doing and if he was thinking about me too. It has always been such a strong desire in my heart to find a wonderful man to marry, someone who would love me and cherish me and appreciate me for the person I am. I always thought I would get married right out of college, just like my parents, so when that plan didn’t work out, I started to get discouraged. A school mate snatched my future husband away from my arms just because she had spiritual powers, all hope was lost to me before i came across the help doctor (
    ) who i confided in, i told him my long story and he helped me regain back my lover with his prayers which is now my husband today. if you have any problem email the help doctor (

  • Rachel

    I know all of this was long ago…but I stumbled across it and it hit home. I’ve been in a relationship for almost 10 yrs. I was 20 when we met. I was pregnant within 10 months of knowing him.. And we had lived together almost right away..not even knowing each other. Our son is now 8 and we also have a 2 yr.old daughter. Don’t get me wrong…we’ve had good times together, lots of laughs and inside jokes..but there is no longer any love least not on my part. And he might think he loves me but his actions mostly don’t match his supposed feelings. He really only expresses how much he loves me when he thinks he’s losing me. I had wanted to marry from the beginning..but he was divorced and wasn’t ready to jump in. Soon after our first child was born, I began to feel differently towards him…and it’s only worsened over the years. I don’t want him kissing me or touching me or having sex with me ..I only allow these things to appease him and keep it peaceful. I’ve thought about leaving many times…but now I feel I’m ready. He has wanted to marry me since before our daughter was born, but by then I no longer longed for marriage with him and I cringe every time he mentions it. Several times I have flat out told him that I don’t love him anymore. And he insists that I’m crazy. He is in denial. Anyway…I haven’t worked in years, except minor jobs here and there. I’ve been secluded and kept away from the light if day, it feels like. He and his family are all I know. I am terrified of change. I’m excited about the prospect, but terrified mostly. I can’t fathom anything different from what I’m living. He has made me insecure and scared of taking care of myself. But I’m ready to go..I just turned 30 and I realized that I wasted my entire 20s being unhappy and feeling sedate. I have no $ except the child support I will receive when I leave…and he will not know about it when it happens. Maybe I’m wrong..but I don’t want to give him the opportunity of trying to persuade me to stay and filling my head with doubts. I will be going to live with my sister 500 miles away. And I am terrified! Terrified of caring for my children on my own and uprooting them from what they know. They both love their dad, but our relationship is no longer beneficial to them..the fighting and cussing and hateful words between us…it’s not building them up and helping them to feel secure. So….your article speaks to me…but I’m so afraid of change bc it was all that I knew. And I’m scared I will fail in my own and have to come crawling back. I almost feel it’s inevitable just bc I’ve been in this life for so long. Please…someone tell me it’s doable and sustainable…

  • Sherry Francis

    Hello everyone, i am here to share my testimony on how i conceived my baby. i have been married to my husband for 12years without no issue.i had problems with my in-laws even my husband started to have new affairs aside our marriage. it was a very terrible thing to bear. i became a laughing stock among my pear, i prayed and fasted and nothing happened. i was now seen as always unhappy.i was even ready to pack out of my marital home and stay on my own because my husband was not given me any attention that i needed from him. i decided to focus on my job and try to live happy on my own. on this faithful day, i decided to check the internet for updates on healthy living and i came across a story of a man called Dr Orissa who helped his wife to conceive a baby. i decided to give him a try because this has been my greatest problem in life. today i am a proud mother with a son. words will not be enough to explained what this man did for me.i am a happy mother,i know there is someone in same condition and you feel there is no way. i urge you to contact him. This is the solution to every single mother around the globe. distance is not a barrier, he will surely make your dreams come trough. contact him today via email: ( you want your lover back or any other miracle in your life, contact him today so the world can be a better place to live.

  • Candy Hills

    Nice article

  • bella Alpha

    my name is Bella,i just want to tell the whole story about what has happen to me in the past,i was married for over ten years no issue, which nearly cost me my marriage, so i came across a friend whose name was sis Cheney, who told me that she had worst, then she hook me up with a herbalist whose name was MAMA DADA HERBAL HOME she told me not to worry about the problem,all i know was that, that same week i became pregnant with a baby. thanks to MAMA DADA HERBAL HOME who has done this great things and not only that she saved my marriage, she also broke the ten years of bareness, and now i am a mother of twins namely Jessica and harry.if you also need help to get pregnant or need your ex back please contact her for help via email: or call+2348169886942..

  • eze

    I want to say thanks to this great man called Dr.Eze who helped me in my marriage life. my name is Rose lives in USA Memphis so i was married to Albert we both love and like each other before our marriage, he care about my well being so i was so happy that i have found a man like this in my life my parents love him so much because of his kindness towards me and the way he care about me after four years in my marriage, no child he was not showing me much care anymore but i notice something is going on which i no. then i keep on with the relationship and i was hoping one day God will open my way to have a child in my home then i keep on going to church from one play to another by telling all the pastors about my problems that i don’t have a child so many of them promise me that soon i we have a child in my home i keep on hoping in God’s miracle on till one day when i went for a visit in my friend office then i was welcome by my friend we started dis causing about so many things on marriage life i was so shock she ask me about my wedding and what is going on till now i still don’t have a child then i told her my dear sister i don’t no what to do anymore and am scared of loosing my husband who have be caring for me for a long time now then she said i we not loosing him i ask how? then she said there is one man called Dr Eze who help in a relationship then i keep on asking how about him she told me this man can do all thing and make things possible i never believe her for once that this man she is talking about can do it so fast. also i ask her how do i get his contact she said i should not worry my self then she gave me his contact email ID and his number to contact him i said okay i will try my best to do so she wish me the best of luck in life then i went home gotten home, found that my door is open i was scared thinking so many things i don’t no who is in my house now i look at the key in my hand i was thinking i did not lock my door shortly a word came into my mind that i should go inside and check if there is any body at home or my husband getting inside, i found that my husband move away his things in the house then i started calling his number refuses to pick i was like a mad Dog i cried and cried don’t no what to do then i remember to that a friend of mine gave me a contact today i take my computer i emailed this man called Dr Eze also i called him on his cell phone which i received from my friend he spoke to me very well and i was happy my husband we come back to me so after the work was well done by Dr Eze , just in three days i heard my phone ringing not knowing it was my husband telling me his sorry about what he did to me then i accepted him again a month later, i was pregnant for him so i rest my testimony till i deliver safely i we give the best testimony again so my sisters and brothers if you are in such pain kindly contact this great man with this email OR CALL +27611515847

  • rin

    I feel the same its 18 years this april and We have grown apart, its hard because we have 4 kids and I dont have any other family , I dont know what to do. Ever since i was diagnosed with Hypothyroidism our relationship has been falling apart. Im lost and dont know where to turn or what to do, I love him but I cant take crying and being hurt by the arguments we have.

  • BB Shapiro

    I really liked this article. I am also ten years past a divorce from a ten year relationship. I think it can takes years to let those feelings of loss and failure pass, only to find them reappear at surprising moments. But you were brave enough to begin, on your own and that triumph is what builds a new life. This article meant a lot to me

  • Melissa

    Your stories are just like mine, wondering where you are today in your journey as I am just going thru this now.

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  • lucy


    How do you let go when you have two young children. I know I need to but I’m scared shitless!

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    Hi, my husband and I have been together 17 years are married for 5, I recently had a one night stand with a man and I told my husband about it, he basically said ok we will get through this, a week later I found out that for months he has been talking to women on adult chat rooms, I’m upset about this and now we keep arguing over everything that’s happened. I suggested counseling but he won’t go, last night he said he can’t get passed this and wants a divorce, I love him very much and I want to stay with him, we have 2 children ages 7 and 5 and I know their hearts will break. We also own 2 businesses together and I don’t want things to get messy since i reach Dr. Oomirimiri on his email: all my marriage problems was solve im now the desirable woman i want to be thank you Dr. Oomirimiri you are God sent to save my marriage

  • Ava

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  • Linda

    First do research on a more affordable state & move out of high priced NJ! Move close to a college/vo tech & talk to someone there about grants & majoring in a good field, where there’s lots of need so you can get a better job. Start thinking about YOU & working towards YOUR ideas & goals & ways to support yourself & child. The busier you are planning your life, the sooner you can forget that bum & move on.

  • tracy brown

    i will like to recommend him to any couple that thinks is all over,you can mail him on and believe me you will testify. i understand that God can use anybody to change our situations only if we believe .thanks

  • kimloumoo

    Thank you for your post – all those years ago. I have just come across it, while looking for advice and I guess strength to end to my marriage of 13 years. Some great lines I noted down, to remind me why I need to do this. We have grown apart and I know feel suffocated. I already have one foot out the door and I feel deep down he knows that too. But that is just causing him to cling more. He has no friends, is estranged from most of his family and hates his job – so I am it. That has made me feel obligated to stay for the last few years. But it is making me so unhappy. I want to be with people who make me feel alive, have adventures and fun. We are just not the right people for each other anymore. We have grown apart. I had decided to wait till after Christmas hoping a New Year will feel more promising for him. New year, fresh start. I want to do this the kindest way. But I am not being very kind to him at the moment as I am starting to detest him. Even the way he eats and slurps his coffee is making me cringe arrrhhhh. Roll on 2018