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On Making the Unreasonable Possible

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“You can do what’s reasonable or you can decide what’s possible.” ~Unknown

When I was in grade school  my teacher had us write down what we wanted to be when we grew up. Honestly, at the time I had no idea.

I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to be but I knew I wanted to be doing something important, so I jotted down careers that, in my young mind, equaled success: doctor, lawyer, dolphin trainer, firefighter, astronaut etc.

Then life happened and all of a sudden I was twenty-four, working for the man, and in a serious relationship that seemed to leave me feeling miserable more often than not. Where was that wide-eyed little girl who could have been anything?

I was at the point in my life where I actually had to make a decision about who I wanted to be. I could be a writer and share my wisdom with the world—but wait, what wisdom do I have? I had no great life changing stories or lessons that others could learn from. I was ordinary and borderline boring.

Not wanting to be such a dull person, I felt a sudden thirst for knowledge, but not the kind you get from textbooks. Real world knowledge. I needed to travel.

The rational/reasonable side of my brain told me that I was being ridiculous. I couldn’t travel! I barely made enough to cover my monthly expenses!

The reasonable thing would have been to find a higher paying job so that I could actually save some money for travel. But who was I kidding? A higher paying job just leads to a nicer apartment, finer dining, and twice as many bills.

As luck would have it, a friend of mine was planning a trip to Machu Picchu in the winter and was looking for a travel companion. Without hesitation, I hoped on Expedia.com and before I knew it I had purchased a round trip ticket to Peru.

I found someone to sublet my LA apartment for the month, used vacation days so as to still collect a paycheck, and traveled to Peru, spending the same amount of money as I would have spent on my daily living expenses.

Sometimes it is best to make a spontaneous leap, throwing reason out the window, believing you will land on your two feet.

Think about speeding ticket. Who has money reserved to pay for speeding tickets? No one—but when you get that ticket, somehow you manage to scrape together money to pay the fine, right?  Think along those same lines and your trip becomes nothing more than a very large traffic fine (or four, if you decide to travel to Europe).

That being said, I am not advocating being irresponsible. It’s just that where’ there’s a will, there’s usually a way.

In one year I traveled to: San Francisco, Washington DC, Peru, Jamaica, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, London, and Paris. Phew, that’s a mouthful!

I know what you’re thinking; I must be miss moneybags, with wealthy parents or a trust fund. I’m not. I don’t have any financial assistance whatsoever and I made $24,000 this past year.

How did I do it? I made the leap and then was forced to cut out the unnecessary minor luxuries a normal twenty-four year old would have. No $70 bar tabs, no cable TV, a downgraded cell phone plan, cooking at home, packing a lunch—all of these small things add up.

We have all kinds of reasons for why we can’t do things but I think you will find that when you take that sharp turn towards something you really want, you will figure out how to make the rest of your life fall into place.

So do yourself a favor and issue yourself a “life” ticket. You can find a way.

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About Jamie Hoang

Jamie Hoang is a Los Angeles based writer, designer, world traveler, tea drinker and lover of the great outdoors. A firm believer in trying everything at least once, she's always learning. Her work can be found at heyjamie.com or tweeting as @heyjamie.

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  • What a nice story, thank you!

  • Geiti Tsetser

    Love your site.. gives me so much inspiration! Thank you 🙂

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  • fbahram

    Travel is a necessity of living a full life. I travel endlessly, far and frequently and I commend you on starting so early! I think you are going to love what the world has in store for you. And Paris rocks. :)! Bon voyage!!!

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  • Valerie

    I feel we live the same life. What a great article!

  • Valerie

    I feel we live the same life. What a great article!

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  • Bridie Solman

    Great post Jamie, thankyou for sharing. Could we chat in more detail about how you made your travel plans happen?? I LOVE how you travelled to all those places in just one year, and I’d like that to be me! Haaa. I have lived abroad a couple of times and travelled a bit, but I feel like I have so much more to do in terms of travel. I made the decision to stop so i could get my degree but now I am getting established in my job I think I have started making excuses so I need that kick up the butt to get back into it, as nothing sets my soul on fire like travel. All love, Bridie.