Hey 🐝’s🦵- I’ll answer in a few hours, just not focused now 🙂

Hey Dear Robi 🙂

I am sure that you upgraded Alicante by being- working there (I really think so, I am not saying this just to make you feel good)!

I think it’s a grat idea to open up to her in a message tonight: it’ll give her time to respond from a calmer mindset.

Anita

Good Sunday morning, Confused 🙂

WOW! What a delight to read this update!

She seems very much emotionally- attached to you, and getting even more attached.

You did an excellent job communicating with her and soothing her anxiety. You are indeed the bee’s knees, Confused!

“Yes, yesterday during the videocall (which was again 8 hours almost and we had fun) … still expect my ‘feelings’ to be around all the time and me wanting to spend every moment with her… The thing now is why did I lose the ‘rush’ to videocall tonight with her again? It’s so annoying that it lasts only for a brief period of time..”-

I am confused 🙂, you mean that “8 hours almost” of fun = “a brief period of time”?

Anita

Dear blocked-off and excited, pissed- off 🤬, tired 😔 and confused 🤔 Robi 🌿

I think that what you need more than anything is C&S (Clarity and Simplicity).

If the relationship with the current has not been working- repeatedly & for a long time (“fighting a lot… so tough”)- wouldn’t it make sense to take a real break from each other, for at least month, maybe longer?

And within this break you can explore a possibility with this new girl?

🌿 Anita

Good Saturday night (there), Enticing Robi 🙂

I like the idea of spending time with friends at the Cafe. I wish there was such a place for me here!

As I read about the woman who works there, I had a few thoughts: (1) How lovely (perhaps) it’ll be if you had a girlfriend living so close to you vs long- distance. (2) Maybe her relationship with her mother is different from the current girlfriend’s, such that is not trigerring for you, and maybe overall, she’d be more compatible with you.

(3) Maybe she’d be less compatible.

(4) If you leave your current, I imagine she’d be very hurt 😔 (5) I wonder if it’d be appropriate to sort of “interview” her so to check possible compatibility.

Well, # 5 ocurred to me right after I typed out # 1-4.

Another thought: Why is life so complicated?

I am fine, although it’s getting to be too warm here for me, and biting insects is a problem.

What thinks Robi about 1-5, or 1-6?

🤔 Anita

How are you, Robin? I hope to read from you again 🙂

Good Friday morning (here), evening (there), Robi 🙂

The smell of vodka alone is enough to trigger a coma warning in my 🧠. To taste it (and I did) is torture, so if I end up in a coma, it’ll have to be lots and lots of sweet 🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷

I am glad you survived the event! (I’ll drink to celebrate it later 🍷..)

You asked how I am today- well, silly, aa you can see above 🐔

You named him, yes, makes sense..

Never tried ecstacy, but sounds interesting: better than alcohol and without the calories?

No worries, Robi, you can’t talk this 👵 into hard drugs 🤔

” Now I just want some peace”- I like that!

Congrats for fine-tuning the alcohol intake, finding the middle way (a Buddhist principle). The middle way between total abstinence and drunkness. Coming to think about it, doestraditional Buddhism advocates for the middle- way when it comes to alcohol?

Alcohol definitely facilitates connectedness with other people and within, when not overly consumed, of course. Then it just makes you sick.

Your Cafe Bistro idea sounds enticing! I just had an auditory visual of a Robi-designed attractive place for community building with music and a fancy antique Merceded Benz parked in the front 👍🎶👍🎶👍

Anita