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    Adya
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    Eliana – It’s good to know it gets better because right now it’s so difficult. She was my go to person for a long time! Thank you for the encouragement and advice

    I truly do feel an explanation would be a mistake, but wanted to make sure I wasn’t being unkind, because I honestly don’t harbor any ill-will or anger. I wish her well, I just don’t want a friendship any longer due to reasons expressed above. (PS thank you for making it through my essay of a post and leaving a response. I think getting advice from someone removed from the situation is most helpful)

    #164496
    Adya
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    Thank you for the fresh perspective, Inky – I guess I have just been feeling that if you claim I’m your best friend, you can/should be honest and it’s ok to express feelings no matter how petty. Platitudes are for acquaintances and friends, not best friends. However, as you said, perhaps she didn’t/doesn’t believe in the same BFF philosophy as I do. I have always thought that was common practice/protocol for BFFs. It’s what I’ve experienced with my other best buds. Perhaps it’s not as common as I thought though. Again, thank you for the perspective!

     

     

     

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