The best thing I could to tell you then, is to listen to and be responsible for your own emotions. If you feel angry, then own that. And own your needs. If it is a deal-breaker for the person you are seeing not to contact you everyday, then take responsibility for your own need – you can either request of him kindly and see if he is willing to talk to you everyday, or leave him and seek out a person who you know is willing to have this kind of a relationship with you.
I felt called to add onto what Big blue had said. I recently had a similar experience; I was dating someone for 2 months and he really liked me, but I couldn’t see that and convinced myself in my head that he didn’t. Then I read posts on the internet from unreliable sources about how to interpret men’s behavior, which ended up being incorrect with him. I acted on this, then let anger and self-doubt take my mind over, and I pushed the relationship to an end, without intending to. That was never what I wanted, but it is like that saying. Whatever you think, you make come true. I had made something that was good, fun and exciting end just because I was so paranoid it was going to end anyways.
Don’t read too much into it. Just breathe, focus on yourself and becoming aware of your own emotions and thoughts. Connect with your own heart, yes. When you move from a centered place, everything becomes clear naturally. No need to “do” anything. Keep the relationship simple, and it will keep you simply happy 🙂
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