Anita, if i really liked a guy i would drive 2 hours to see them! or more! if he really wanted to see me or was interested in me he would too. i mean he knew where i lived it was no surprise. he even asked me about it and he said the drive would totally be worth it.

another thing is most of the guys that message me on match live cities away..the way i see it is why message me if you know where i live and aren’t willing to drive out here?

i had a long distance relationship and this guy drove from san fran to see me or fresno every week!

and yes not all guys are the same but come on 45 min drive? i drive to school for one hour on a daily basis with traffic as well.

im just so confused, i like him and want to try this with him, but whats the point if we will see each other once a month..and he is very proud i feel like, if i were to text him what you are saying he would get all defensive and probably end things or suggest to be friends like he did before.

Thank you sooo much! we are back to texting, taking things slow, and seeing where it leads us to 🙂 thank you sooo much Anita!!!

Right i understand, i did however explained to him why i said that and where i was coming from, which was from a toxic relationship..i guess im just beating myself up in the head now, it kills me that we will never know..but wouldnt you want to give it a try with someone you think would be the one? isnt this risk worth taking?

i had a bad break up 2 years ago and in some ways i still have some issues….so my online date was moving to fast, and instead of telling him i also moved fast with him because it felt “right”.

now, when we met in person, i was not attracted to him physically, so i told him that i did not see a connection between us in person, that our chemistry was better online then offline….

then i realized that one date was probably not enough and that maybe i should give it another chance, so i asked him what he thought about proceeding to a second date and seeing if we were indeed a good match…

then he went back and forth changing his mind. he said he really likes me but doesnt know if after what i said he could ever see me again. then he says yes i can see you, then 5 seconds later he says we should just be friends