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  • March 24, 2019 at 1:50 am in reply to: Am I Condescending or Are They Insecure? #286017
    AEG
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    Hi Ashley
    I once had a friend who unfortunately died in an accident 25 years ago.We, his friends could see he had an appearance very similar to what you describe,productive and successful in his academic field, taking care of his expensive car and living in a house with a magnificent view over the city where he occasionally would sit and play the grand piano.
    To those who did not know him over time and did not know about his personal background he would have appeared condescending, I believe (his mother committing suicide when he was 11, upbringing for some years at a boarding school etc.).
    To us he was just himself, self confident but also in moments insecure and expressing a deep sadness in his (brown) eyes.
    He died an in fact heroic death in his mid 30s and is now almost forgotten, as he was childless.His girlfriend whom he adored was sweet and a “commoner” as they say in England, if such things as class exist.
    I believe you just should continue playing with your toys and visit your club, and as time go by I think you will connect with others if mutually opening up over lived life (personal and professional) and listening to each other.
    Sincerely AEG

    March 18, 2019 at 2:29 pm in reply to: Shortlived affair ending in a mess #285185
    AEG
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    Dear anita

    Maybe someday I should elaborate.Feel tired and remorseful.Could write one line, or a novel.Done is done, and tomorrow the sun will rise again 🙂

    Have a nice day – topic closed – and thank you – AEG

    March 17, 2019 at 3:34 pm in reply to: Shortlived affair ending in a mess #285037
    AEG
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    Dear anita and inky
    I admit I was hurt, but have far from felt or behaved superior, and respect her choice (no other option btw. :-)). Perhaps you are both right, and I regret saying that about her looks.I am not pretty either.Those other bad words are not mine,but from a friend who is a doctor.I simply just believed what happened early in life was part of the headaches and could have fixed a private appointment.
    TinyBudhha is welcome to scrap this topic.
    all the best – AEG

    March 17, 2019 at 10:22 am in reply to: Shortlived affair ending in a mess #284993
    AEG
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    Thank you for reply, anita
    I am not clingy and think I will let time pass and let her go, so in some way not my problem anymore.
    She was born prematurely and probably spent her first time in an incubator, in and out of hospital for the first year.Her pains / headaches appear absolutely real.They could be physical or a result of tension, perhaps a combination.Her medication is now being discontinued, and no alternatives are planned.She has not been on vacation for the last many years due to a sparse economy, living in a rented flat.A big dream of hers is to get a job, where a kind but very verbally active behavior is standing in the way.
    A second opinion could examine and consider if it was an idea e.g. with medication against hyperkinesia. Alternatively, if it was confirmed that a medical condition existed already in youth contributing to poor performance on the labor market she would qualify for a moderate rise in pension.
    That is of course her problem alone.She is a talented person and could do well if she was given a second chance.As it looks now she will not get that chance.She could spiral into an un- or self medicated painful existence.
    AEG

    March 17, 2019 at 3:32 am in reply to: Shortlived affair ending in a mess #284923
    AEG
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    Cannot edit, so an addition:
    This person belong to a group of people where, if explaining ideas, like in a game of chess, I can follow the first 3 or 4 moves and hereafter will loose the thread, where they can continue to the 8th or 9th move.They look to me as skilled chess players just playing on other boards.If not having any education and never meeting counterarguments, being a wild flower, interpretations in the end of course will be wrong.Their criss crossed and fast processed thoughts makes it difficult for these individuals to collaborate where I think drugs used against attention deficit perhaps should be given a shot.After talking with friends a second opinion concerning medication is not likely as a person above age 50, out of work and seen upon as a drug abuser if following guidelines not will be prioritized for a second opinion in our present health care system.

    • This reply was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by AEG. Reason: typo
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