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  • August 18, 2018 at 6:35 am #222005
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    Thank you Anita,

    honestly I don’t know what to think.. it’s like he’s this stranger I know nothing about. It’s so weird to know someone for so long and then find out he’s doing something like that.

    Honestly I feel like I wasted a lot of my life but at the same time I can now move on without looking back wondering “what if” because I’m convinced I made the right decision for myself.

     

    Love,

    A

    August 17, 2018 at 6:59 pm #221987
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    So yeah, new update, turns out he’s been telling people I broke up with him because “I don’t like small dicks” and talking trash about me so yeah. I believe he just made it 100 times easier for me to completely move on. Sorry for the language and thank you for the support.

     

    love,

    A

    August 17, 2018 at 4:56 pm #221981
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    Hello,

    I don’t really know how this works so I don’t know if anyone will see this but I wanted to make an update.

    I’m feeling much better about the choice I made. In fact so much better that I sometimes feel guilty about being at peace so quickly after a breakup.

    My ex is not okay, some friends told me he’s not going out and he’s posting old photos (of himself as a kid) with captions about how happy he used to be. I haven’t liked them, I barely looked at them actually. Should I like his photos as I feel they are a message for me or give him his space? It feels really weird to look at them and feel like I’m a stranger. At the same time I know that I can’t keep going back to try to “fix him” it’s just weird to not help someone after being his support system for so long and helping him comes like an instinct to me.

    Love,

    A

     

    btw I’m not stalking him, I even patted myself in the back for not looking at his profile once. It just popped up on my feed.

    August 11, 2018 at 12:06 am #221107
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    Dear Eos and Anita:

    thank you both for replying to such a long post. Your insight has helped me see things a little clearer.

    It still hurts, but I know the wound is fresh and that I need time to heal properly. Even tho the sadness for the loss of a loved one is there, the guilt has faded a little because I did try my hardest to help him, there was nothing else for me to do and he wasn’t willing to see a professional.

    For the meantime I’ll try to follow your advise, specially about not letting myself contact him or stalk him on social media.

    Thanks again,

    A

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