I admit, I can be insecure, And I can get that fear feeling in my gut, is not precisely gut feeling, but fear! there two different things that perhaps feel the same,I feel this way right now because the first time I ever started to doubt or feel insecure in this Whole relationship with him is because of this same situation with this same woman,which happened 2 years ago, he mentioned me this women and needed me to do him the favor to call her to give her an address,because she was a”FRIEND” from sometime ago and that she was in an supposedly ”abusive” relationship and that her husband was dangerous (this was 2 years ago when we started our relationship) after that he did not mentioned her anymore until 3 days ago,and Again I got the same feeling,

Maybe I am just one of those persons that see ghosts where there aren’t any! if I see a business card I might think your up to something, if I see that you have 2 emails I might think your up to something bad!, that’s how I am!! I recognize it,now its not an excuse for this weird situation.

@anita, well we have been together for almost 3 years, and I first heard of this women basically at the beginning of our relationship like 2 months in, and according to him from two years ago and recently as well, she is just a friend from sometime ago and he knows her family and so on, the problem is this women does not live here where we live, she lives in the states I believe in New York, him and I met studying abroad in the Caribbean so right Now my boyfriend and me are here in the Caribbean and she is in new York,BUT she happens to be from here originally as well,SO in my mind I don’t know why I have a slight feeling this girl is an ex girlfriend and perhaps she left to the states when she broke up with him but at the same time how long was it from this speculation am having because she has 2 children with her husband, I just don’t like this sounds weird.maybe i’m just insecure.